I can hardly believe that it has been over a month since I last posted. I've been trying to think of some of the things that keep me from posting. The reason that I wish it was is that I've been so busy getting other important things accomplished that I simply haven't had time to be on the computer. Unfortunately, that isn't exactly the case. Part of it is having to share the computer with four other people in the house. The other part is the challenge of time management with young children - and older ones. Much of the time that I do get to spend on the computer is with a baby in one arm, I really dislike one-handed typing.
So what does all this mean? I need to make time for what's most important. It's like the story about the rocks and the jar. The short form is that you take a big jar and fill it with large rocks. It appears full. However, if you then take smaller rocks you will find that you can fit them in the spaces. Now it's full . . . except that if you take sand and pour it in you will find that you can fit quite a bit of sand in the jar. Is it now full? Not quite. Now you can take some water and slowly pour it in and it will fill the spaces between the grains of sand.
Now if you did it the other way, put that amount of water in, followed by the same amount of sand, then small rocks and finally large rocks, you would find that you would not be able to fit as much in. And the things that would be left out are the big things.
I find that when I feel like I'm not getting as much accomplished as I would like it's because I'm trying to put the water and sand in first. I'm doing the extras without focusing on the essentials. The trick is figuring out exactly what is an essential for you because it's different for everybody.
Now, lest anyone think that I haven't done anything for the past month, here's a short list of some things that I have accomplished. Hosting a birthday party for my older daughter (complete with hand beading leather pouches), making a gift for a friend, helping my parents get settled in their new home, sending some clothing to the donation bin, repotting several of my plants and, most importantly, helping my children when they need it. Some things that have been done around the house but I didn't really do myself (but supported the efforts) are the building of 2 bookcases in each bedroom and in the living room (with many thanks to Elder Bevans from our church for his help and expertise), weatherstripping our doors and doing various minor repairs to the house. Some of these will likely make their way into individual post but for now this will have to be it.
One last thing that's quite exciting. Our baby got his first tooth today. Yay! He thinks it's so cool, he keeps rubbing his tongue over it.